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Both the Libra and Aquarius are reasonable people, and this can be a very reasonable union as a result. Libra values partnerships more than anything, while Aquarius places the highest value on the friendship first, before the relationship. Both of them are cooperative souls, and this fact adds tremendous strength to the opportunity for a respectful relationship.

Aquarius man is not so complex although he is a bit arrogant. When he has decided on something, no one can change his mind. He is set in his ways and believes in a universal love. If he feels that decision isn’t completely fulfilling he moves on to something else until he finds what it is that is fulfilling to him. He has a hard time deciphering between love and friendship but once found it is his for life. He is more than likely marry more than once in his lifetime, but when Aquarius man finds the right one he is faithful and loyal to her. Even if romance doesn’t bud, their friendship will.

Libra woman has an innate beauty that radiates from her soul. Even the ones who are not so radiantly beautiful still possess a dazzling smile that turns any man’s head. She gets pleasure from the lavish, attractiveness and the comforts of life. She is highly positive in almost everything she sees and does creating a better attitude toward something that would normally be ugly or depressive. She never takes control of the relationship, therefore leaving her lover highly respectful of her, but she supports him in whatever his goals are while helping him from making mistakes along the way.

Libra woman and Aquarius man have their own views on what they feel is fair. Compromise on both sides creates a serene relationship. Music is their common denominator as is art and religion, travel, philosophy and the minds of children. Their bond is one of compassion and warmth. She tries to pull Aquarius man to her side and her ideals and he seems to go along with what she wants him to do in the beginning, but then shows her that his views are the actual ‘right’ views and he stays grounded on the whole situation. She always knows how and when to support him and make him feel loved. She also takes care that his freedom should not be obstructed by her possessive nature. Their relationship has the taste of both romance and friendship which is magnificently blended by them to give it a perfect look.

Aquarius man fills the life of his Libra woman with thousand colors and some wonderful dreams that make her feel more alive. He respects her and gives her the place and space she deserves. His logic is perplexing to his Libra woman at times with his witty imagination, amazing brilliance yet half witted reasoning. Rather than let it bother her too much, she simply becomes aware of his intellect battling with his inspiration. He, on the other hand, sees her abilities in keeping up with him on that intellectual level. He loves the conversations they have and knows they are never dull. Overall, the compatibility between Aquarius man and Libra woman is smooth and well bonded especially mentally and physically, emotionally they are freer willed. The innate harmony caused in this way pretty much supersedes any quarrels they may have on an intellectual level.

As the destiny brings the Libra woman and Aquarius man together they actually realize that Love is Life. They both magnify and benefit each other with compassion and calm tranquility. He looks at his lovely Libra woman and sees nothing but beauty. She sees him as the smartest man ever and appreciates all his acts. Their love becomes so pure and strong that all their misunderstandings dissolves away and even in the worst of arguments do not stand for long. The love of Libra woman and Aquarius man is like the sun that warms them when they are cold and detached. It is like the cool water of the brook that refreshes them till their souls. Their romance knows the secret pleasures of their oneness that delights them and makes their each moment gratifying.

Since Libra woman and Aquarius man is a blend of Air, it plays beautifully in their sexual life giving them both pleasure and fulfillment. If they can put their minds on hold from all of their differences in the fair and the just, their bodies mold together in a harmony that makes their sexual connection calming and peaceful. Their hearts soon follow resulting in a healing that mends any cracks in their bond. Although their minds clash with their differences and it is difficult to come to a compromise, their sexual tendencies are much more easily attainable. It is amazing the difference in the two relationships, the intellectual relationship as opposed to the sexual one. They are almost like two different couples. Their lovemaking is almost an art in that the passions they portray flow so perfectly together like a song and if sex is colorful, Libra woman and Aquarius man would produce the most amazing and breathtaking piece of art on canvas that an eye can ever behold. Past experiences could haunt their lovemaking in that it never really feels like the first time, even when it is. There is something all too familiar about the bonds that form between Libra woman and Aquarius man.

Basically Libra woman and Aquarius man enjoy a very smooth relationship but from time to time, some heated arguments can arise. He sees his Libra woman, then, as selfish and childish when she can’t deal with the objectionable and he is quick to point that out to her. She is quite possessive of him and is quick to judge when he is not paying enough attention to her. Unless he is quick to apologize for such behavior he leaves his Libra lady betrayed and hurt. With patience and modesty she may be able to mend this hurt, but it won’t be an easy task. He eventually apologizes but the sooner the better. The end result, as long as they can work out the differences in their view points on what is fair and just, will be a strong and natural chemistry to be strengthened over time.

How wonderful life is with love!



     It is so nice to fall in love!


     Sometimes we get caught up with everyday things that we forget how wonderful love really is. The smile and warmth that it brings to our heart. I've been in love with love for a long time that i actually thought that it was made with roses and chocolates. Love letters and silly surprises. Well it is a big factor in keeping the love alive. But the main factor to keep love alive resides in our own heart.
 
    I am no love expert. In fact, i suck at it big time! I have the perfect ingredient in driving a relationship crazy! But wouldn't you agree that to love is crazy itself? We do things that we never thought we would. The feeling of happiness and sorrow as well has no scientific explanation. We simply feel it and let ourselves be lifted away by our emotions.


    All i really wanted to say is that love could very well be alive in simple day to day things if we keep it alive in our heart. Love for God, love for life, love for our partner, love for our family, and last but never the least is love for ourself. If we keep our hearts open, there would be plenty of spaces for love to come in. We are the one who restrict it from our lives when we get clouded by negative feelings and emotions. Problems and taumas. Fear for things that hasn't even happened. The thing is, if we trust that God has our back and we just learn to believe in ourselves, accept and see the beauty in whatever situation we come in, love would come flowing endless.





Hahaha! Cheesy movies always has this silly effect on me! Can't wait to meet another love of my life! 5 months to go! Can't wait to fall in love with my baby!

life and all that stuff


Someone just posted the video 'No Air' saying "t.gifriday's memories. This is for you guys"


This song surely brings back memories especially for me. I used to listen to this song over and over during those days! Looking back at my life then and my life now made me realize lots of things.


I am lonely now. And secretly depressed. Everyone who knew me then would now. This is not me frowning or staying quiet for most of the time. I stopped listening to music which is the thing i love the most aside from love itself. I even stopped writing! To sum it all up, i've stopped living. Forgotten how it feels to be alive. I've lost my glow! 3 years ago i had an entry discovering my inner glow. And people see that in me. I radiate my happiness to everyone i now. My life was crazy but i was alive and kicking!


Now i know why i've lost everyone. I secluded myself. I became a bore and who would want that? It feel's sad and terrible. Life is too short to be living that way. I should know. Everyone moves on. Things change but people continue to live. Adapt. Adjust. There is no need to hold on to anyone or anything. Life is constant movement and change.


I am bearing a new life inside me. What will i teach him if i continue being like this? One thing, you can never depend your life to anyone. You have to make things work for yourself. We live our own life. It is true that everything happens for a reason and i know the reason for this now. A year and a half to figure out that i've been killing my own self inside!


My days of hiding are over though. I know what to do. That's the Kat i know. People and circumstances push me. You can bring me down now. Constant disappointments. One thing's for sure, i will come back with a blow! And this time, no one can stop me. Too much of nothing has become unbearable and is causing me now to get back up! It's that one person i've been wanting to introduce to my husband. And i can't lose me because if i do, i lose life and love itself. Maybe this happened so that i could finally soar and fight and live full up to all my potentials.



Be patient for the time being. Nurture my little one inside of me. You are my new strength.

Apr. 21st, 2011


Everything you said was right. There is no need for sorry's. It doesn't really matter.

A dog has died by Pablo Neruda


 
     My husband's dog died today and so this poem is for him and  pepper.

A Dog Has Died

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  My dog has died.
I buried him in the garden
next to a rusted old machine.

Some day I'll join him right there,
but now he's gone with his shaggy coat,
his bad manners and his cold nose,
and I, the materialist, who never believed
in any promised heaven in the sky
for any human being,
I believe in a heaven I'll never enter.
Yes, I believe in a heaven for all dogdom
where my dog waits for my arrival
waving his fan-like tail in friendship.

Ai, I'll not speak of sadness here on earth,
of having lost a companion
who was never servile.
His friendship for me, like that of a porcupine
withholding its authority,
was the friendship of a star, aloof,
with no more intimacy than was called for,
with no exaggerations:
he never climbed all over my clothes
filling me full of his hair or his mange,
he never rubbed up against my knee
like other dogs obsessed with sex.

No, my dog used to gaze at me,
paying me the attention I need,
the attention required
to make a vain person like me understand
that, being a dog, he was wasting time,
but, with those eyes so much purer than mine,
he'd keep on gazing at me
with a look that reserved for me alone
all his sweet and shaggy life,
always near me, never troubling me,
and asking nothing.

Ai, how many times have I envied his tail
as we walked together on the shores of the sea
in the lonely winter of Isla Negra
where the wintering birds filled the sky
and my hairy dog was jumping about
full of the voltage of the sea's movement:
my wandering dog, sniffing away
with his golden tail held high,
face to face with the ocean's spray.

Joyful, joyful, joyful,
as only dogs know how to be happy
with only the autonomy
of their shameless spirit.

There are no good-byes for my dog who has died,
and we don't now and never did lie to each other.

So now he's gone and I buried him,
and that's all there is to it.


Translated, from the Spanish, by Alfred Yankauer

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Please don't take my journal away again. Thank you!

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I used to be a lot of things but being a loser isn't one of them. Awesomeness! I'm getting my life back!
I'm wasting my summer away!

Things to do:

1. fall in love with my hubby everyday
2. New job
3. Save up
4. School
5. Hobby/craft
6. A new collection
7. Get smarter!
8. More books
9. Make babies! =p


I am slowly removing the clutters of my life. One step at a time. Thanks to those dear friends who keeps reminding me of who i am. Thank you for my family for just being as crazy as we all are. Thank you bebe for the love you give me. I know we will be with each other soon and we will continue our journey and a whole lifetime together. Thank you God for everything.

Hunger Games Cast


 

    At last, the castings for the lead roles are finally released! I really love The Hunger Games Trilogy. I used to stand by for the release of the final book. Now that i have all three, i am just waiting for the movie.

    I wasn't really happy when i saw the actors chosen at first. For people who totally admire the books, the actors just don't seem fit for their character. Not only are they far from their age, but also to their race, color and persona. I just tried to imagine Jennifer with black hair instead, and Josh with blond hair and then i guess, it's just fine. It's a bit disappointing but it's too early to judge. They are good actors anyway so might as well give them the chance.

    I truly hope that they will stay true to the book though when it comes to the plot and the story. The Hunger Games Trilogy is a masterpiece by itself and does not need to alter the story too much. How many books were created into a movie only to ruin because of too much alterations to the story? Come on! They might edit the violent parts but the action and the thrill should still be there. Please don't make it into a "twilight" tweeny meeny love thing! I love how the book portrayed the politics and reality at it's cruelest only to let the real life values shine.
Hmm... Just wait a little bit more?

    Good luck to all the movie cast and the production team! May you do well and give justice to Suzanne Collin's work. This could be the next big thing or a much anticipated flop. Finger crossed then. March 2012 for the Hunger Games. May the odds ever be on your favor. Let the games begin!

baby, are you lonesome tonight?



     I made a wish for someone and it's starting to come true. I really should be happy! I've made a few wishes for different people and suddenly it comes true. Friends, loved ones, they start getting back up.

     Me, Kat, has been an expert in inspiring people. They would feel down and come to me, and you should hear me speak! Full of hopes and dreams. I push people to have faith in themselves, to go reach for their dreams. When a friend is suffering, i pray for their guidance and happiness. And then, i watch them be happy and feel happiness too. But on top of that, i feel empty. Isn't it a bit too ironic for a person to inspire others to go reach for their dreams and do good when she herself doesn't do the same?

     Really Kat, when would you stop wishing for other people and start wishing for yourself? Well, i reward myself with food when i can afford it. And that's that i guess.

    Five years ago, i was a goal driven person. I knew what i want and i was sure that i would be able to make it. I was confident, with ambitions of the right amount of it. I was good at anything that i want. And i push myself to get what i want. Crazy! I don't even know what i want now!

     I wish i could meet another Kat who would be like i am to other people. I wish someone would talk to me that way. I feel so lonely. And alone. And broke. And don't know how to start, or where to start. Or where to go.

     I honestly wish i could be with the person i love and go fight for my dreams beside him. I know i will do good if only he was beside me.  I don't know what lesson that i have to learn. I know i'm missing on something and it's just there around the corner. But i know i need to stand on my own. But it's hard. It sucks being a libra at times like these. A libra who needs love or admiration on top of everything. And seriously, i can't burden him with my emotional needs. We are two different people. He doesn't have needs that are the same as mine and it would be hard for him to understand. I've kept it so as not to be regarded as a needy weakling. I love him, admire him, and adore him. Desire him even. But we are two different people from different worlds and thousands of miles apart.

    There, I blurted it out. But at the end of it, i still end up wishing for his happiness, my family to be able to stand up, for the people i love to be healthy, safe and happy.

    I want to wish for this time to go by quickly and wish that i could be out to go fight again beside my beloved. Take care of the person i love. Wake up next to him everyday without the fear of parting ways again. But foolish you to prioritize things and depend on the future that is uncertain and you have no control over. I really should get moving. I need to let go now. You've been lying in your bed for more than a year now. Wake up, sleepy head. Get your ass up!




   ***Instant positive thought. My angel must be IM'ng me! -

"If you don't know the path in which you are headed and lost what you want for yourself, you should start by standing up and taking baby steps. Just one step will keep you moving. And no matter what it is, keep pushing forward, and forward. "